|Tween seeking a caregiver
||[Jun. 9th, 2014|10:24 am]
Single Ageplay Lovers
So I've done this before, posted a want ad and got nowhere with it. I think it might have been because I wasn't clear about what I was looking for. So I'm going to try again...|
Let's start with a little bit about myself. I am a 21 year old student studying in Scotland. I value my education and the steady quiet life. I like to believe that I am a whole person, that my life is pretty fulfilled. I have a loving Master, I love my friends and I've surrounded myself with things that make me happy. Most of my time in my little state is spent on my own, dressing up my doll (Elizabette) and reading, or role playing online. However, the latter part has been tough, given that I've a very shy and timid middle. I've known other littles to jump into any persons arms and delightfully call them Mommy or Daddy. While there's nothing wrong with that, i tend to take things a lot slower. I wouldn't say that it is difficult for me to trust, because that's not really true - but I've found the bigs I've spoken to so far have been demanding, highly sexual and, frankly, pompous. I actually would really love to find someone I can relax with, find someone that I don't have to keep a guard up for, someone who doesn't really demand I be something I don't want to be.
If you were to message me, I would like to see the real you. I tend to be open, transparent and honest when dealing with people, and I come at them as the real me, starting with my name. Hiding behind titles and persona's seems insecure to me. I am looking for a man who is comfortable with himself and doesn't always have to relate to me as a "daddy", who can engage with me on a vanilla level. I would also like someone fairly young, hopefully someone within my own generation. The reason for this is normally so I can relate to you and you to me. When in lolita mode, i get excited about all the things that I grew up with, video games, books and films that moved me and shaped me as I grew up. I want to be able to share that with you and gush about pokemon and harry potter, maybe even play pretend. Someone growing up at the same time as me is far more likely to share my interests.
I'm a very creative person. I like to write and paint. Painting is my career choice and as such I've developed a pretty critical eye. What that means isn't that I like to criticize everything, but that I like to take things apart to see how they work. Analysing things in this way is very enjoyable for me and again, that is something I would like to share with someone. I love to learn and there is no greater pleasure for me than for someone to show me the deeper side of the media that I consume. I also love to flex my creative writing muscles through online text based role play (like cybering but without the sex!) If you're into that, I would love to put our heads together and see what we can come up with.
If you're thinking of answering this ad, then I'm probably going to ask you why you did so. Your intentions are very important to me. If you just saw "21 year old female tween age player" and went straight to sending me a message, then I'm going to be disappointed at best and suspicious at worst. Please don't let the fact that I have a vagina (there - I said it!) be the reason you message me. I want to connect to a person, a real human being with thoughts and feelings and opinions and desires, not to their genitalia. It might sound obvious but the problem that I keep slamming against when trying to find a compatible "daddy" is that I consistently feel objectified, constantly fending off men who are just after one thing. Like I said above, this has left me shy and nervous about meeting guys. But I really do want to fall into my role as a middle, and I really do enjoy sexual ageplay - being a middle is the nicest and most relieving thing for me right now. I have to stress it's not difficult to get me to trust you - just be patient, non-threatening and gentle. In otherwords, don't be an asshat!
ok - so here are the important points in bold.
I am looking for:
A man between the ages of 21 and 31, secure and happy. I am polyamourous and so ethical poly men are welcome to apply. I am a tween, that means I play between the ages of 10 and 14. Online relationships are fine at this stage. I am NOT interested in diaper play
DO NOT APPLY IF
You are looking for quick cyber sex
you are not a feminist
you are older than 31
no, seriously, you're not the exception. You are not the first person who has ignored this message and tried to pester me for sex, or wondered if I would respond to them even though they were in their 50's. You are not the first person to objectify me and see nothing but a potential vagina to stick your penis into
I apologise for the people who that didn't apply to, but I feel if it didn't put it up there in blank and white, I will get a slew of unwanted messages. In fact, I'm sure I still will.
Finally, i tend to be a little gender fluid in my middle state. That means that sometimes I want to be a young boy, as well as a girl. I know I'm pushing it a little here, but if you're ok with that, and would give me the space to be a boy sometimes, I would just love that.
Thanks for reading... I think I've given people a good idea what I'm looking for and who I am... If you have any further questions, include them in your message. You can find me on fetlife (Darah Deschain), or on skype (my skype name is "Darah Deschain" just like fetlife). If you add me on skype, or send me a message on fetlife, use the password "David Matthews" so I know you are responding to my add. You can also find in the chatroom at care4baby.com under the same name. I hope to hear from you soon :)